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Thursday, May 23, 2019

A little effort we can make...

People are hurt and broken inside...  Wo chahty hn k ap unki baaat suno tasali se un py trust kro... Hm tb tk achy nhi bn skty jb tk hm apni phli galtiun ko bhula kr unk regret se nikl kr khud py ykeen kr k aagy nhi barhty... Zyada tar log apni phly gltiun ko nhi bhool paty unko yad krty rhty hn sochty rehty hn us pr regret krty hn or mayoosi chaaa jati h phr un py wo chah k b acha nhi kr paty wo yhi sochty hn k hm bury hn hmari waja se yh hua wo hua etc aur ab agy b kch acha nhi kr skty hm q k hm logon ki nazron main bury hi rahyngy hmesha isliye wo apny andr se yeh cheez nikal dety hn k wo achy insan hn or woh continue rkhty hn apni harkaten apny kaam unk andr acha bn'ny ki ko salahiyat hoti hai wo khatam hojati hai woh life se awazaar ho jaty hain unka dil chahy b to wo acha nhi bnn sakty un main khwahish mar jati hai acha bn'ny ki...  Phr wo dusron py bojh bnty hain...  Dusron ko tang krty hain...  Insan akyla to reh nhi skta...  Na hi puri life chup reh skta hai islie ya to woh apny family members ko torture kre ga un py bharaaas nikaly ga unko tang krega hr mamly main ya phr wo apny sath apny social circle main logon k sath bura karega larega...  Agr hm kuch kr skty hn ase logon k sath to hme unko ykeen dilana h k wo acha bn skty hn blky wo achy hi hain bs hm ny unk andr ki is achai wali roshni ko jagana hai unko yh ykeen dilana hai k hm un pr believe krty hn hme un pr trust h jo hua so hua bhool jaen life chalty rehny ka naam hai regret k sath or tensions k sath hum aagy nhi barh sakty balky mamla or kharab hoga isliye sb theek hojaega isliye jo life reh gai hai us main achy se apni zimedariun ko pura kren sb k saath achy se milyn baat kren hum family hn ek dusrey ka khayal rakhny ki bjae agar ek dusrey k sath aesa salook krengy to bikhar jaengy at least hum bahir jese b hon mgr ghar main ek dusrey ki importance samjhen ek dusre k liy priorities banen ek dusre ko bardasht kren...

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Wednesday, March 6, 2019

یہ دنیا ٹھیک نہیں

بہت جگہ پڑھا سنا، لوگوں کا کہنا ہے کہ یہ دنیا ٹھیک نہیں، اِس میں لوگ بے وفا ہیں، مطلب پرست ہیں، دل توڑ دیتے ہیں۔ جس انسان سے جتنی محبت کریں وہ اتنا ہی دور چلا جاتا ہے۔
 لیکن! حقیقت اِس سے کچھ مختلف ہے۔ ہمارا دل ٹوٹا، یہ تو ہم سمجھ جاتے ہیں مگر ہم نے کتنے لوگوں کا دل توڑا، اِس بات سے بے خبر ہو رہتے ہیں۔ ہم عاشق بننے کو بھاگے بھاگے جاتے ہیں مگر کسی کا عشق بننا ہمیں گوارا نہیں۔ کوئی ہمیں پسند آجائےتو ہمارے دل کی خواہش ہوتی ہے کہ وہ پہروں ہماری یاد میں بتائے،  جبکہ ہم خود لوگوں کو لمحہ بھر کے لئےبھی یاد کرنا مناسب نہیں سمجھتے۔ در حقیقت نفرت کا آغاز ہماری اپنی ذات سے ہی ہوتا ہے۔ ہمارے اپنے ہی اعمال ہیں جو مکافاتِ عمل سے ہوتے ہوئے ہمارے سامنے آ کھڑے ہوتے ہیں تو ہمارے دل کا چین اُڑ جاتا ہے مگر پھر بھی ہم اتنے اناپرست، اتنے ظالم ہوتے ہیں کہ ہم اپنی ہار کو تسلیم کرنے کی بجائے اُس سے منہ موڑ کر کھڑے ہو جاتے ہیں۔ 
بعض اوقات تو ہم بندھن توڑنے میں یزید سے بھی آگے نکل جاتے ہیں۔ مگر جہاں بات نبھا کرنے کی آتی ہے تو خود غرضی میں لپٹے انسان کو فقط اپنی ذات سے سروکار ہوتا ہے۔
اکثر بہت سے لوگ کہتے ہیں کہ ہمارا دل کسی کے ہاتھوں ٹوٹ کر ریزہ ریزہ ہوگیا ہے، مگر یہ کوئی نہیں کہتا کہ شاید یہ کسی چاہنے والے کو دکھ دینے کی سزا ہے۔
عشق، محبت، اقرار، اسرار سب سچے ہیں بجا لیکن ہم جھوٹے، ہمارا کردار جھوٹا، ہمارا وجود بھی جھوٹا اور شاید
ہمارا عشق بھی جھوٹا۔
تحریر: یاسرمنیر


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Saturday, December 15, 2018

Be satisfied Be Happy

Sometimes when we walk out of the home we noticed some people sleeping by the side of the road. In Bangladesh, India and so many other poorer countries peoples are well known of this views. There are so many people in this world those who haven't their own house, they sleeps wherever the got place. They do not have money. Sometimes they beg and feed themselves or sometimes they are starved for several days. Winter is a comfortable season for us but a harrowing season for them. They haven't any warm cloth. At the night of winter they wear a simple thin sheets and sleeps under the open sky.
Just think...they are also human beings, take a second and just imagine their conditions. Suppose you were one of them, Then??  What happened?
We think our lives are full of sorrows,sadness,imperfections. Every person in this world are just busy of themselves. They are sinking themselves in their own thoughts.Who cares what's happening in others lives.Who cares of those road sides homeless people and that's the cause we became depressed at some point of life.
There are always something to be happy, to smile about in our life while there are millions who cannot fulfill the basic needs of life.On the other hand,we don't even think about these ever in our life.
I don't want to say you shouldn't have a dream or some desires to want more in your life.Yes,obviously you should have a big dream or an aim to achieve. And you have to make a plan and work hard for it.In that case, you have to face a lot of difficulties and obstacles, You must because you know that their is "No pains, No gains”. Yet u feel down, when you fail to achieve something you want, why you are fallen down? Why you think yourself a loser? At some point many of them thoughts there is no point to live. They lost their self-confidence too.
So when you feel sad about life just remember those who have nothing in their life to survive,actually.To become something in life or to achieve something you have to focus in your dreams,work hard & have patience but if you remain sad or down or depressed, you can't plan anything or create a great idea to work on and to be happy in your current situation you must be satisfied what you have because _
"the life that you are living now,is also a dream of millions. So always be satisfied with your life.Be happy in every moment of life"


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Tuesday, December 11, 2018

Power of Busyness

Stay busy to avoid sadness.
"Active natures are rarely melancholy.Activity and sadness are incompatible"_christian bovee
Sometimes you are just sad.Whether it's the holiday season,your birthday,anniversary or other special occasion,you can inexplicably feel sadness.It may be that the occasion itself reminds you of a loss,especially if the loss was recent,painful.You might be sad because you know you didn't behave with the best of intentions.You could also be sad because you did nothing  when you know you should have done something.
Perhaps you are sad because you tend to sit at home and mope about what's wrong in your life.It could also be that you have a physical condition that needs attention or diagnosis by a medical professional and you have been putting off getting a check up,worried that there might be something seriously wrong.These can result in sadness.They also have one thing also in common: Inactivity.
The best prescription to get over sadness -not clinical depression, mind you which requires professional help,but general sadness of a temporary nature -is to get busy.That's right.
"You can really only enjoy life when you're extremely busy"_
                Josephine de La Baume
No ones life is perfect.Every person you meet in your life have their own sorrows.But there are always something to be happy with in your life.So why?? Why you are sitting & thinking about those sad memories?Why you are losing your valuable times.Just forget those sadness & make your life beautiful.I know it's not easy but if you try properly it's possible.
Mind it- sitting at home will do nothing to help erase sadness.While going out to be with others may be help you to avoid sadness.To be busy is the best cure to erase your sadness/bad memories.If you really want to forget something or make yourself cheerful you have make yourself busy with something/social work/some creative works(that kind of works which make your body & mind both engaged).If you continuously remain yourself busy with some productive works or whatever else at some point you will find yourself that you have no time to be sad & when it's became your habit you will be the happiest person because those who have no time to think they have no time to be sad.
Use the power of being Busy.

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Sunday, December 9, 2018

Judgements

There is a race between students of every age of securing first position in every sort of examination rather it is a pre learner or a matric student. It's valid to secure good marks but it is not good to judge a child on the basis of his result. We ruin our child's own identity and personality by scolding them, taunting them and make them feel embarrassed because of taking less marks. We compare them with the other kids of relatives and neighborhood and make them think that they are nothing on their own and their own abilities means nothing. They are useless. They are dull. Every human has his own capabilities and are different from one another. These tests and exams doesn't define how much a child is intelligent. His own competencies, abilities, thinking and interests defines his inner beauty and intelligence level in him and differentiates him with the others. Kids have to go through variety of subjects so the level of their interest is different for each subject. Some subjects appear to be easy for some students but at the same time some students feel difficulty understanding those subjects not because they are dull or they don't pay attention ( in most cases ). They may have problem in understanding the new concepts in the first attempt or they may have problem with the teachers explaining method or they are afraid to ask the teacher for again explaining the same thing. Similarly when we forcefully make a child to study the particular subject of our choice, it would become a burden on him. It would be inconvenient for him to carry out result if he is not interested in that subject or he doesn't get it. The selection of the field/ subject must be left on child after his proper career counselling. He must be given advices for right choice but shouldn't be forced to study a subject on behalf of parents or teachers. How is the child going to bear the burden or stress which would let him drowned in the flood of pressurized study. Here I would like to quote the words of a great motivational speaker "Qasim Ali Shah" ... "You are born for the work which takes you out of time and space." And what do we do? We force our children to study the field of our choice or the one which ensures money in the practical work. As a result, having no interest and aptitude for the particular field, they get fail or attempt suicide in case of extreme depression because of their family. And if they let themselves live and bear the brutal treatment, they become psychopaths or let themselves on the wrong path destroying their future with their own hands. I just don't get it how a person's own family members and parents become his/ her enemy. Such a person who could achieve greater heights is being buried down by own family members and their choices. What is the outcome of such behavior? Such treatment? We just get nothing and ruin our own children with our own hands, destroy their dreams, snatch the right of life and happiness from them and put a tag/label on them of "the most dull or blunt person in the family" and we don't make them forget this ... We just continue in the form of taunts, changing behavior and much more...... 
WE NEED TO THINK...!!!
WE NEED TO STOP..!!!
#STOP_JUDGING...
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Written by : Atrooba Raza

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Thursday, December 6, 2018

Language of soul

Silence has it's own meaning. Silence portray people in different ways. If a very talkative person is silent, it could mean that he's not well. Something is disturbing him or something is not well with him. But some people always remain silent. While sitting in a group where people are busy in their conversation, they observe others, listen to them, notice each and every point and say nothing. But they are full of nature. They observe the world like no one has done before. Every little deed of love creates a wonderful feeling in them or we can say it becomes special for them. Being soft and kind hearted they find beauty in each and everything. They enjoy the lively moments which usually other people ignore or are not able to see. They are full of life. 
Silence is the loudest of all noise. Silence is what makes the close heart speak.
Such people are in search of someone who would accept their nature, understand them and let them fly in their own thoughts without taking away their silent nature. Silent people have their own abilities like expressing reality through words, understanding their loved ones, making others happy, trying to fulfill dreams of other people, getting happy in other's happiness .
Silence enables one to successfully concentrate, mediate, understand and connect with the universe. 
Not everyone is capable of understanding such people. As a part of the world, we just criticize, blame and create a worse effect on such people by degrading them and commenting on their nature. Such people are really disgraced at such a level that it becomes difficult for them to get up and move on. They are being humiliated by our behavior. Being silent a person is usually emotional and sympathetic. They need to be understand and their silent nature must be accepted and respected.
Silence is talking to inner human.
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Sunday, December 2, 2018

East Women


I had seen a news yesterday where a west (Pakistani) girl take a chart where she wrote “My body my choice” actually she indirectly want from people to leave him like the west women’s do. But on that time my mind  remember the interview of Hillary Rodham Clinton (American Politician) she said The women’s of east are very lucky because they have mans to save them, those mans are in the form of father, a brother, a son and even her neighbor, who fight for them whenever they watch her in trouble. Moreover she says and in west we are very unlucky because here no one is honest and loyal as a true partner everyone love women for satisfying their sexual needs.

But our east women’s only see that side of west girl where they are safe and ignore the other side. And as a result in east many girls are run away from their houses for live an independent life but after only some days they realize the truth of world.

I don’t want to criticize the western women’s and their culture but we don’t change the truth in actual they also want a purify culture in the form of family a real family, in the form of good partner, in the form of true neighbors but unfortunately instead of going to the good way we choose bad once day by day.
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